This article has been created from interviews with over 100 women
Every person who walks the earth has the burning desire to live the life they want, and the more fun we can have the better. Life is not meant to be dull, the mind cannot accept drudgery and uniformity, the mind craves stimulation and excitement as much as the body needs food.
Although the world is jam packed with opportunities to live our lives the way we want, to have the financial wealth, social life, career and the family we dream of, how many ever truly have that? Many of the educational systems that train us as children cover aspects of knowledge such as Maths, English and Trigonometry, but how many breach the waters of goals setting and living to the true potential?
Are we taught as a race to colour within the lines, don’t walk on the grass and be a good person by ignoring our feeling and putting others first?
Although it is very inspiring to see women living their true potential and being free to do what they want, how many women are actually kept down? During the research of these topics I have heard countless stories of how women can be treated as second rate, especially in the business world, unfortunate but true in many cases.
It can sometimes be extremely challenging to move forward against suppression without being seen to be a trouble causer, and a suppression that is so subtle and habitual that it can barely be noticeable (except to those who feel its grip)
But for those women out there who do feel that they have to colour between the lines and ignore their drive to move forward, does that actually stop the “feeling” of wanting to move forward? It’s doubtful….
So where do the bad boys come into this?
Well as we saw from part 1, the bad boy creates an air of the hero, a chance to have an adventure, a feeling of “come with me and we can ride off into the sunset” and what could be more attractive to any women who feels society is going to suppress her and she can’t win than the bad boy who rides up and offers promise of mystery and excitement and a world wind romance to take all the troubles away! A promise that they will be on the side of the lady they love, fighting for their freedom equally as one person, to be truly heard and understood and treated with true respect in everyway!
Is this not the doorway to ultimate freedom! The dream of being truly accepted for whom she truly is, giving the ultimate opportunity for self expression?
Personal view by Paul Ryder
These article’s are created from the views of women I have interviewed and on this particular topic is still surprises me how much suppression there is in life. Men and woman are equal and each sex has their different gifts. Suppression is created by self conscious people who want to control others and this is not just related to women, men can suffer tremendous guilt by being labelled as a bad boy when they are not. There is good and bad in us all and it is important to observe that before we cast judgement.